Retired porn star slammed after revealing how he ‘disciplines’ women he dates
A retired porn star who dishes out dating advice for men has been slammed after revealing how he “disciplines” women he dates.
Stirling Cooper, a self-proclaimed sex coach from Western Australia, recently appeared on the podcast “Frankifyy” to share his secrets to “improved sexual performance” and “success in dating dream women.”
During the hour-long podcast episode shared on YouTube, Cooper detailed how he would cut off a woman he deemed was drinking too much during a date, and said he’d walk out on anyone who wore a pair of jeans.
The controversial content creator, who has been likened to controversial influencer Andrew Tate, has since been widely criticized for his remarks, which many described as “misogynistic” and “controlling.”
“I hate when women wear jeans on a date. It’s like the least feminine thing I can think of,” the 37-year-old states in a clip of the episode that has since gone viral.
“I would say before we meet up, ‘Don’t wear jeans.’ If you wear jeans, I’m going home. Pretty clear.”
Cooper, who frequently touts products he insists will increase penis size, according to the New York Post, also advised men to draw a hard line with drinking.
The former adult star, who recently stated he “discourages men from engaging in any sort of porn” after leaving the industry in 2020, said he cuts women off from ordering more alcoholic drinks than he thinks they should have.
“I will stop a woman from drinking if I think she’s had too much to drink,” Cooper said.
“She’s had one drink. Two drinks. She’s having way too much and then she goes to order another one. I will tell her. I will stop the waiter and be like, ‘No, you’re not getting her a drink, get her a water instead.’”
He added: “It’s kind of like a dad disciplining his daughter in a way.”
Cooper then boldly claimed that women have told him the move “was the sexiest thing a guy has ever done” — but many viewers called it out as “controlling” and “misogynistic” behavior.
“I think they probs said it’s the ‘most sexist’ thing a guy has ever done! But he only heard what he wanted to hear, cuz I very much doubt he’s ever listened to a woman,” a person commented.
“He doesn’t like jeans on a date? Well, I don’t like misogyny and daddy-related control issues on a date,” one commented on Instagram.
“If you’re trying to control what your partner can wear and consume on date 1, I can’t imagine date 2 and beyond..” another responded.
As another pointed out: “Did he really say that he’s giving his date the father-daughter treatment? Ew.”
“Run for the hills,” one woman stressed.
Other women mocked Cooper’s advice, with one declaring: “I signed up for a date, not an adoption interview with a man who thinks he can be my dad.”
“Oh NOW I KNOW why I’m single… it’s because I keep wearing jeans while doing whatever the FK I want!!!!!” scoffed another.
“Don’t even drink but this makes me want to go out with him and drink just to piss him off. In my favorite jeans,” laughed someone else.
Cooper moved into his new career as a self-described “sex coach” following a five-year stint as a porn star, during which time, he claims, he won “multiple awards” for his performances.
He’s since transitioned into a relationship coach, offering a range of “educational” products, including a self-penned book that claims it can help men grow their manhood.
One of his titbits includes telling guys to be “unapologetically masculine” and preaching that “sex is a learnable skill.”
He said he decided to become a “sex coach” after receiving an influx of messages as a result of his porn career.
“I started to reply to everyone I could, and I eventually realized that the average guy was facing a lot of problems in his love life,” he told Life and Style magazine last year.
